Working Women Issues : Is India ready for working wives/mothers/daughters-in-law?

working women issues, preeti panwar solanki, insaneeye
working women issues, preeti panwar solanki, insaneeye

Working Women Issues :Is India ready for working wives/mothers/daughters-in-law?

Working Women Issues :Is India ready for working wives/mothers/daughters-in-law?

Questions Asked At Quora, and here is an anonymous reply:

I dont think so. I will tell you my story. I am working wife. My mother in law came here for a month to just stay with us. She really expected before marriage, that her daughter in law would not be working or housewife so that she can relax while her daughter in law helps her at home. But ours was love marriage so she couldn’t do much about it.

working women issues, preeti panwar solanki, insaneeye

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I came one day from office and was bit sleepy so I slept till dinner time. At dinner time,I woke up, serve dinner to my husband, her and myself. She also helped me in keeping all the things in kitchen. But then said that after my son gets a good salary, you should stay home for the future babies.

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Dont get me wrong that she is evil or something. She is not. She is just very orthodox, who thinks women are beneath men. She is very caring and all. She always buys me gifts and dresses and sarees.

But she still thinks that I am beneath her son or I will always be beneath her son because I am wife. So when she came to know at certain time period that I was earning bit more than her son, she asked her son to get a new job as her son should earning more than wife. Also she thinks that in her household if husband works his life reduces.

So she always ask me to serve her son in hand. Even if he wants water and he is sitting nearby I have to give it to him or she gives it to him but he should not take it. Let it be water or smallest thing. So from that perspective also if I am working it does not suit. As well as she thinks that if I serve her son, god will shower his blessing on my family because husband is god and my serving to my husband is equivalent to serving or praying god. So when my hand was fractured and her son has to cook dal and rice, she cried. Not because my hand was fractured and but because her son had to cook. Which he did max 3 times in one and half months.

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So I think she is not ready to have a working daughter in law. And she used to work in school before and take tuitions. She used to do household work as well. She thinks there should be someone to take care of her and her husband and household always and that should not be done by the son. He should just go to office. Come home. Have dinner served. eat and sleep.

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And other task should all be done by daughter in law.

And bad thing is I can not say anything about it. Because she is very gentle lady. She never manipulates. She never asks for income or so. And she buys me gold from her meager saving for me(which she does and I feel so guilty about it) because she does save a lot for it. She sometimes gives gold her gold as well. But except from one small earring of gold I decline all the things. Because she likes it so much and she saves so much to buy gold.

So sorry to take out my frustration. But ya my mother in law is not ready to have a working daughter in law.

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