How To Win In Life-Do Not Believe In YourSelf
Do Not Believe in Just ‘YourSelf’
Do not believe in Yourself
Oh, It’s not ‘something’ which you have learnt so far.
You are grown up listening ‘Believe In Yourself’ since as infant your first ever TRY to take turn aside yourself, and after that at every moment, when you got ‘just’ A+ and were not able to get ahead of Pratham , you were beaten by your classmate because you wanted his ‘Lattu'(Fidget deprived 80’s kid!).
You were not selected in cricket team for which you were actually never meant to be.
When you could not purpose your crush. Damn! there were many average ‘believe in yourself’ like you .
Thousands of life moment, when your family, teacher , friends gave you a boosting pat on your back, saying ‘Believe in Yourself’ !
and if by any rare chance if insertion of ‘this magic quote’ is little less in you then there come the ‘we’ motivational gurus.
Do not believe in Yourself
But pig is still pig!
And thats amazing, it worked, you started believing in yourself…and wow! You have become socially certified ‘Successful’ Person.
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But problem arises at next step of ladder, ‘It’ OVER worked!
Next step is…. I BELIEVE in MYSELF ONLY !
Overdose of ‘believing in yourself’ makes you forget to ‘believe in others too’
So , My dear ‘LeadersAreNotBorn, ButMadeLeaders’ , You are marvelous, super amazing, most talented, supra-universe personality, no doubt! After-all you have worked hard to achieve it!
but others , they too exist, with a little talent, with a little their ‘self’, please believe in them too.
Yes, We are talking about:
‘Do not believe in ‘JUST’ yourself’ , but believe in OTHERS too!
Like you may be super social worker with magnificent personality having lot many appreciation, who is sweating hard on grounds. You are a real GEM.
But unlike you someone else who is digital marketer, having 65 clout score, and 70 DA blog with lot many ‘not paid’ followers on his social accounts also deserve at least ‘believe in him worthy’ attention of yours.
Just because you do not have an idea of how much if not ‘sweating’ but ‘AC-ing’ hard to be the social media influencer , does not mean they are not good.
They may be doing something else than what you do, they think something else than what you think, still believe in THEM.
Believe in yourself as well as in others.
WHAT TO BELIEVE , ok ,Lets make it little easy.
- believe in other people’s Attitude , Just come out of stereotype effect that those alike you are asset, all others are just near to ‘garbage’.
- believe in their Choice of work, doesn’t matter if you do not understand that.
- believe in their love for you or for someone else , their choice.
- believe in their dreams,ideas, concepts, though you found it weird.
- believe in the magic they bring.
- believe in their choice to inquire, to be curious.
- believe in their act to challenge the status quo.
And of course, Adding ‘Believe in Others’ with ‘Believing in yourself ‘ is your CHOICE but remember this ‘Choice‘ will intentionally bring out the BEST in Others, consequently will bring in you a ‘person‘ for whom doctors might have said ‘Badhai ho ‘The Real Great Human Being’ hua hai!